It simply means that you value the relationship much more than our ego"
In childhood days, bipasa basu did not like boys. Bipasa is telling "I was a terror to boys and the boys were calling me as LADY GUNDA"
Bipasa Basu further told that she used to carry a stick when roaming in her colony, and if any boy misbehaved, she will teach him a lesson.
Bipasa basu fur;ther comments on her school days :"I was very short and was monitor in my class . When some one misbehaves, she would jump up and catch hold of his hair and beat him. yeah.... she is really a terror.